Lately, I had too many things in my mind, and got distracted a lot, especially after attended a few marriages and a funeral, really made me questioned myself about finding my perfect match.. how will I find one? Who will the person be? Why haven't I found one yet? Stuff like that.. It so happened that I got an email from someone on steps and tips of finding a perfect match.. which is quite generic.. does it help? Well.. let's see..Steps:
> Be aware of the things you constantly do, and try to find someone who does a lot of the same things as you. -> Hurmmm.. I thought opposite attracts?
> Think about what you want in a woman. -> Someone who can accept me the way I am..
> Make a list of what you want in a woman. Write down their personality traits, looks, and other important details. -> I lost the list already.. so lazy to come out with another one.. aiyooo!
> Look at your list at least once a day, if not more. -> No list, how to look? hehehe!
> Make mistakes, because mistakes make you learn who you really are. -> I made lots of mistakes everyday.. it's just about learning from the mistakes or not!
> Don't be afraid to show how you feel. Personality will attract the one who is perfect for you. -> I'm so expressive of who I am.. but everyone else run away when they know me.. hahahah!
> Be flirtatious and look your best, because if you feel pretty you usually look it too. -> Flirtatious? whooooooooooooooo....
> Get out there and start dating. Don't worry if you don't find 'the one' at first. -> Dated tons of em, but still cannot find 'the one'..Tips:
> Make sure you're never being fake. If you hate cats, and a really hot girl likes them, don't say that you do too, because then you will never find the perfect one. -> I'm too expressive, people run away lorrrrr...
> Always say what's on your mind, even if it is completely random. They might just be attracted to a weirdo. -> Again, I'm too expressive, people run away lorrrrr...
> If you are uncomfortable, don't go on a date. If this is a bad time, like if someone just died, don't go anywhere. You'll only be depressed on your date. -> Didn't quite realize about it.. good one..
> Dress with clothing you would normally wear. Be yourself. -> I am myself, and people find me so selekeh lorrr.. and ask me to change my dressing, which is not myself.. Conflicting, isn't it? so how?
A few of my single friends even got into online match, matchfinding service, and some even paid for the service, only to get some corny dates with weirdos, or find themselves getting trapped on a date with psycho and stuff.. which is confirmed as not effective..
Suddenly, question after question arised.. Am I too choosy? Will I ever be alone? Will I ever find my perfect match? Why is it too complicated? Or is it all God's plan for me? Probably someday, some weirdos will come along and find me as their prince charming.. or shrek maybe? I'll wait for that moment to arrive.. heheheheh!